We live in a fast-paced world that is continuously bombarding us with messages of lack, imperfection, disease, suffering, and fear, while at the same time we are expected to accomplish everything quickly; in turn, we have come to expect to get immediate results and instant gratification. We want a quick fix for our problems, our financial situation, and even our spiritual evolution. But as one of my beloved teachers used to say, “the road to enlightenment is not a highway.” I think that this also holds true for anything valuable in life.
We are fed by the mass media with hopes and wishes about our lifestyle, our health, our relationships, and our safety, while our behavior and emotional states get manipulated through the fear mongering and superficiality of the news and entertainment industries. This strategy does more than make us want to behave a certain way or buy stuff: it keeps us trapped in a moral dilemma between desire and fulfillment; between a sense of lack and the ability to create abundance and joy; between fear and love.
When you add to that the sense that if we don’t succeed immediately in the attainment of our goals it means that we’ve failed, we remain trapped in a limited and limiting perception of ourselves, our self-worth, and the value of what we have to offer as individuals. Not to mention how demanding, hard, and judgmental we become toward ourselves and others.
We may be conditioned to look for the quick fix and the magic pill, but personal transformation and success are aspects of our soul integration process that require awareness, patience, and perseverance for us to learn what we’re here to learn. Our human process and our soul journey may not always be in sync, especially if we let the ego-mind take control, so we need to align them for life to move more smoothly and in accordance to what we really want.
Are You Hiding Behind Your Sense of Lack?
The mind will always find excuses to prevent you from moving forward and growing. So if you want to change something in your life, your career, or your business, more often than not your ego-mind will resist and come up with an obstacle to convince you that it’s not possible, that you can’t do it, or maybe that you don’t deserve it, especially if you try and don’t get the results you expect right away. Money is a common excuse to avoid taking full responsibility in creating the life we desire.